Pregnancy Number one......Versus Number Five

Pregnancy Number One

Receive lots of attention at work, because everyone is so excited that you are going to have a baby. Receive surprise baby shower at work. Spend time looking through baby name books, and decorating the baby's room. Visit family for another baby shower.

A few weeks before the baby is supposed to be born, start maternity leave. Spend the days napping, relaxing, talking on the phone, taking walks, and doing occasional housework uninterrupted. Shop for maternity clothes, and start collecting baby gear. Receive phone calls from husband during the day to ask how I am doing.

Pregnancy Number Five

Get up at 6:30 to rescue one year old from her crib. Bring her into our room to try to pacify her for a few minutes until the sun comes up. Hear chatter of two boys playing in the next room. Hope that the oldest sleeps for a little while longer.

Spend the day keeping kids happy and occupied and playing referee, cooking, going to library and playgrounds, and anywhere to keep us from being stuck at home all day. Try to fit in laundry and dishes along the way, and keep the house reasonably clean. Refill sippy cups, hug the tearful, and keep going on....

At 6 pm receive phone call from husband that he is going to be working late.

At 7:00, having put the baby to bed, feel incredibly tired and lay down for a few minutes. Briefly fall asleep, then wake at 7:30 to reluctantly start another bedtime routine with younger two boys. Get their teeth brushed, change them to pajamas, read them stories. Tuck them in and then, just as you thought you were done, get them water, because they are begging as if their life depends on it.

Come downstairs to try to maybe relax for a minute. Oldest son sees you and announces that he is hungry. Sit on the couch and tell him to find something in the fridge, and let him microwave it himself. Tell him to clean up after himself. Walk into the kitchen and see that he has already gone upstairs. Put the leftovers away. Then give him a bath and supervise teeth brushing, and make sure he puts on pajamas. Tell him goodnight.

Come downstairs and see that it is now 9:30. Just another 15 hour day.