tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21690955843566677532024-03-05T00:24:27.818-08:00Amanda's BlogAmandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-39167904221414743972012-05-15T06:08:00.001-07:002012-05-15T06:14:57.338-07:00Mommy is Taking her House BackAll I wanted to do was to drop them off at school. I had spent the last hour directing them to get dressed, and eat breakfast; not the usual eggs, but a simple breakfast, just cereal with milk. The older two ate theirs, mostly. The little girls ate some, then the youngest starting emptying the cheerios one by one onto the floor. I told her no. <br />
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The middle child, the youngest boy, was still upstairs declaring that his stomach hurt and he couldn’t go to school. It took a phone call to daddy (who was driving to work) to get him down the stairs. Then he didn’t want to eat breakfast. He said that it hurt to eat. I knew he wasn’t sick anymore, yesterday he was perfectly fine but I let him stay home one more day anyway, just to be sure. Today was the day everyone had to go to school. It had been way too many days of sick rotating through everyone in the house, and the chaos was getting overwhelming. Baskets of washed laundry were waiting to be folded. Piles of dirty laundry are waiting to be washed. The machine had been constantly running, trying to keep up with extra sheets, and towels, and clothes. The same comforter got thrown up on and washed twice, two days in a row. <br />
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Usually on Monday, I get them to school, and then start the laundry, washing, then folding, making neat piles on the bed, then emptying the dishwasher, cleaning the breakfast dishes, picking up around the house. Making beds. <br />
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The last 5 days have been survival mode, just trying to take care of sick people. I have been avoiding the back of the living room, the toy area. The buckets have been turned over, spilling out over the space, growing outwards, embarking on the rest of the room, like a thick oil spill, slowing growing. How many times have I wanted to clean them up like normal, get them back into their neat organized buckets, and stacks, on the shelf? The toy rugs, perfectly squared out, arranged neat, then swept, and vacuumed. But I couldn’t. Every moment another person would throw up, or spill something, or the little one would pee. This morning, there was a big milk spill, and a pee, all within five minutes of having to leave the house. At this point I just wanted them out. Get to the car boys! Get on your shoes and coats. Get your back pack. GO!!!!<br />
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They are gone now. It’s Tuesday. It's finally quiet. The dishes from last night are in the sick. The baskets of laundry are waiting to be folded. The two girls are in the living room playing with the toys. I am going to start. I am going to get things back into order. Everything is going to get back into place. Mommy is taking her house back!Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-75375858236708322762012-03-16T08:04:00.002-07:002012-03-16T09:01:24.310-07:00Yoga defragmented my brainYesterday, my peaceful, calm friend Linda, who is also a yoga teacher, came over for a session. We stretched, we downward facing doged, we breathed, we closed our eyes. My muscles trembled, they worked, and I relaxed. I felt chi in my hands, pins and needles in my feet, and work in my legs. <br /><br />I enjoyed the yoga, and mostly I had set out for the purpose of strengthening my core without injuring myself. But yoga also did something else. It defragmented my brain. Today I am an organizing machine. I attacked the closet in the baby’s room that was piles of boxes, and bags, filled with clothes, blankets, stuff to keep, clothes too big, clothes to small. Everything had originally started out in separate organized piles, each for a purpose. Over time, clothes would just pile up, some would fall behind the boxes, puzzle pieces would land on the floor, and sometimes, (wince) I would just open the door and just throw stuff in there! But today, I approached it, not as “the project” to do someday, but peacefully, and happily, and the decisions were not hard. Usually, I can’t decide quickly what to keep, what is sentimental, what to give away. Today I filled an entire huge box speedily, and without much thought. I even put my beloved boppy in there, which I used to nurse all five children – with only a moment to pause and think, then decide that if someone else can use it, it is serving a better purpose than filling up a space in my closet. I can only attribute this liquid organizing experience to my Yoga class. <br /><br />Yoga also undid something, 10 years of motherhood, months of morning school drop off, getting five kids dressed, fed and ready in the space of one hour (and not killing them in the process). Waking up at 4 am with a toddler that will only have mommy, and that needs to be snuggled back to sleep so as not to wake up the rest of the house. The hurriedness of pick one up here, drop one off there, clean the house before the cub scouts arrive for the den meeting – that starts a half hour after dinner! <br /><br />Today, I am calm, I am whole, I am even blogging – after 2 years off. Thank you Yoga. Namaste!Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-5018033138246066402010-04-04T19:06:00.001-07:002010-04-04T20:36:18.478-07:00Good Cookin'For some reason, I have been taking pictures lately of some of the food that my husband and I have cooked. Here goes: <br /><br />Tonight's Easter Dinner: Spiral Honey Glazed Ham topped with pineapple, Julienned Carrots with smart ballance and salt, my yummy mashed potatoes made with Skim milk and Smart balance, and crescent rolls. Gravy made from my homemade chicken stock. <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVRRU6Jbvg2noil_YC7Kj2_0OBYheISG5grwaDCvbgZY9P93_z05oHts6GTYdQiD7eIdhOTDBCBtxWg7ZPzUvnDfdG_2V_iervPAPm-Crey2EN3VqGk9QsuuQPNm9IMSyZz-0ZnaCqYNo/s1600/Easter+061.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 349px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVRRU6Jbvg2noil_YC7Kj2_0OBYheISG5grwaDCvbgZY9P93_z05oHts6GTYdQiD7eIdhOTDBCBtxWg7ZPzUvnDfdG_2V_iervPAPm-Crey2EN3VqGk9QsuuQPNm9IMSyZz-0ZnaCqYNo/s400/Easter+061.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456481493757971874" /></a><br />These are the eggs we decorated last Easter:<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOHj8MDqvm8YQeG2Eiv6ooF45aMlDR7ebLJm4NdLOMSN4RbOsICYkOGKANbm3f7sOEIFtF7nabD6LUAYJgEYnddfO4wcDUVABj6QyxzoUsX-PzBWZkZyyA3DiN5u6ZflZHZCGg4gofoOE/s1600/Easter+026.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgOHj8MDqvm8YQeG2Eiv6ooF45aMlDR7ebLJm4NdLOMSN4RbOsICYkOGKANbm3f7sOEIFtF7nabD6LUAYJgEYnddfO4wcDUVABj6QyxzoUsX-PzBWZkZyyA3DiN5u6ZflZHZCGg4gofoOE/s400/Easter+026.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456484026527941458" /></a><br />Lumpia's - Egg rolls filled with cabbage, shrimp, bamboo shoot, carrot, and mushroom! Served with Salad. He gets all the credit for the Lumpia, which he made from scratch and fried in his Cool Daddy frier. I made the salad. <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmj9vugnIWc0Um12S2BBpT28mBmf8hBa6csdVTCSfX6MwtZwiUqDpu1GiZ3kuelWTkqVLB1J-9TKn2wopRp1Cm9w9tf0qkV8IgwYdkQyzqGNOJBnRLNpSdNrkj2fyJKGTkzafKlcPj7ac/s1600/st+patricks+day+031.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjmj9vugnIWc0Um12S2BBpT28mBmf8hBa6csdVTCSfX6MwtZwiUqDpu1GiZ3kuelWTkqVLB1J-9TKn2wopRp1Cm9w9tf0qkV8IgwYdkQyzqGNOJBnRLNpSdNrkj2fyJKGTkzafKlcPj7ac/s400/st+patricks+day+031.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456479358238736722" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhccyJWw2xYMoxNvsWqzICBFv2U7__z_wU3eqsxqWwdGX64jaYVZsf7RwLbKcnctbkBKB3HjdKGUeWAxi78KqPJAh0jdiCvHJdT2KyU8gMd_GJvsF4fF6CL1PXfo3MsiOm8igB-RYtSt_c/s1600/st+patricks+day+030.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhccyJWw2xYMoxNvsWqzICBFv2U7__z_wU3eqsxqWwdGX64jaYVZsf7RwLbKcnctbkBKB3HjdKGUeWAxi78KqPJAh0jdiCvHJdT2KyU8gMd_GJvsF4fF6CL1PXfo3MsiOm8igB-RYtSt_c/s400/st+patricks+day+030.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456479357334486290" /></a><br />White cake with strawberry filling for my daughter's birthday.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4gB0BcIhaSCMZc8vPWrF1Ai2AXI5XY49PcCoM0VgNdt1jF7KNrxeSk1XwYb65gTDnxKlXnYFIMGugKowbGMfDDqhCHHDvgV_8dRAbeOhNLCqKDYal8TfAKispdNJonA3M9izLveT4Ogw/s1600/anna2bd+030.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg4gB0BcIhaSCMZc8vPWrF1Ai2AXI5XY49PcCoM0VgNdt1jF7KNrxeSk1XwYb65gTDnxKlXnYFIMGugKowbGMfDDqhCHHDvgV_8dRAbeOhNLCqKDYal8TfAKispdNJonA3M9izLveT4Ogw/s400/anna2bd+030.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456477599508855170" /></a><br /><br />Quahogs and Little Neck Clams, served with melted Smart Balance.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWPf_VjVqLSdw2TqfBMEVcdM51wHz-QTcQaCmXKjgX5Jo7o5TMwYXvV1ABujtSCbEidFDDQMU1FJN3liV2TQAPBK_PdbqSWsqSOnYrFOdAYOyv1plx4SNdYTgeyn5Ga_KgEk6NqjlpXJY/s1600/019.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjWPf_VjVqLSdw2TqfBMEVcdM51wHz-QTcQaCmXKjgX5Jo7o5TMwYXvV1ABujtSCbEidFDDQMU1FJN3liV2TQAPBK_PdbqSWsqSOnYrFOdAYOyv1plx4SNdYTgeyn5Ga_KgEk6NqjlpXJY/s400/019.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456474977304062146" /></a><br /><br />Pizza with fresh mozzarella, mushroom, and homemade pesto. We also made Calzone, but the pizza was much better with these ingredients.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdRVPAeyXB0SDwoBCwBjWVjfTl41TLV9J0er4vJ1m00D-Kv-Pt3Ws2f_NdtZCe90a03yMFV2_7N1_wSH2wWHYA98nJ2NOhvo7fBftBJunwMBCsJV3ksBM15ARVUYulTmaeY3IkXSRAucI/s1600/014.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhdRVPAeyXB0SDwoBCwBjWVjfTl41TLV9J0er4vJ1m00D-Kv-Pt3Ws2f_NdtZCe90a03yMFV2_7N1_wSH2wWHYA98nJ2NOhvo7fBftBJunwMBCsJV3ksBM15ARVUYulTmaeY3IkXSRAucI/s400/014.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456474972906708162" /></a><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqQk04b5cyTchH9FsGeDqNVUGXr2VlmxFzGFs9u6n113NSIxKmHSQ_B11U0C3OnVPOxxL-ko9qTF0H63C-a2cFM2spRtHa920SgmDSP6WuKscm9v9waox8zWswgZMqlPWpBzaxbQzf95s/s1600/012.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhqQk04b5cyTchH9FsGeDqNVUGXr2VlmxFzGFs9u6n113NSIxKmHSQ_B11U0C3OnVPOxxL-ko9qTF0H63C-a2cFM2spRtHa920SgmDSP6WuKscm9v9waox8zWswgZMqlPWpBzaxbQzf95s/s400/012.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456474965234946882" /></a><br /><br />Corned Beef and Cabbage for St. Patrick's Day.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkNWwUeav_VIyWblD9xtalJaXZZkgcT9Gzp48hBojHSWzMOlaj3QgOb_HNTMkmZ7DAQ-xNXMkSP2m8PktZvar2VznHm_jAvpNpQ0pR9FHUnN5TET5ciCmew0PjM_Hm6tx3ddxHO6JETeE/s1600/005.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgkNWwUeav_VIyWblD9xtalJaXZZkgcT9Gzp48hBojHSWzMOlaj3QgOb_HNTMkmZ7DAQ-xNXMkSP2m8PktZvar2VznHm_jAvpNpQ0pR9FHUnN5TET5ciCmew0PjM_Hm6tx3ddxHO6JETeE/s400/005.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456474222069958066" /></a><br /><br />Eggs, Bacon, Hashbrowns, Carrot bread, and Gingerbread for Christmas Day breakfast.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRKvoame88MGp00r5oew_5DoXgaCnMfc6kqLgPYcXSDVOlg1N4Pe4ELM9kaanDik0Z22fFVwCu4NMsocqrXRFM1xk1qidhVRCQ84W4RyjrX_lJP8XNAfuXdve_hkXtaUM8SzHro3RXmdg/s1600/Cmas09+017.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRKvoame88MGp00r5oew_5DoXgaCnMfc6kqLgPYcXSDVOlg1N4Pe4ELM9kaanDik0Z22fFVwCu4NMsocqrXRFM1xk1qidhVRCQ84W4RyjrX_lJP8XNAfuXdve_hkXtaUM8SzHro3RXmdg/s400/Cmas09+017.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456478464844603810" /></a><br /><br />Thanksgiving Dinner! Yum, so good, my favorite, Everything here is from scratch except for the bread, which we got at a bakery. Turkey with stuffing, mashed potatoes, mashed squash, whole cranberry sauce, gravy, and peas. Stuffing did start from a box mix, we added celery. <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_EMfDk8IPqADNv-3hPIYKqZADKWiNBkrXjURiDDSc3koAvepv57dBiZspQkb0ayyfZyf_D14zaYyW2-nkC16TgO1_sfGVplk6-ofsCTX6kCmP_WhDYk4OSt5R09U3MZ2bOJI1VypFbXs/s1600/Thanksgiving09+012.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_EMfDk8IPqADNv-3hPIYKqZADKWiNBkrXjURiDDSc3koAvepv57dBiZspQkb0ayyfZyf_D14zaYyW2-nkC16TgO1_sfGVplk6-ofsCTX6kCmP_WhDYk4OSt5R09U3MZ2bOJI1VypFbXs/s400/Thanksgiving09+012.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5456482641907470962" /></a>Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-70074961476098278192010-02-09T07:14:00.000-08:002010-02-09T07:18:47.826-08:00The Dining Room TableIt’s just a few simple pieces of wood; mostly flat, the legs slightly curved. It changes from hour to hour. On Thanksgiving and Christmas, it is covered with a white tablecloth, and adorned with fine plates, cloth napkins, and decorations the kids made. The floor below it is perfectly vacuumed, and there is no clutter around. <br /><br />The next day, it might be covered with legos, creations to cool to take down at night, which will be played with again in the morning. Sometimes, it is surrounded by playgroup mom’s, drinking coffee and eating muffins, while the kids play near by, stopping by every once in a while for a snack. <br /><br />On Tuesday nights, it hosts Cub Scout meetings. The Den Flag stands close by, and the boys have their Wolf books, and projects. There are more chairs than usual around the table, and we crowd in, with parents standing behind the kids. <br /><br />After dinner, it becomes the homework table. Math, spelling, and writing, are thought over, and written, and checked. Questions are asked and corrections are made. Backpacks are packed.<br /><br />On Saturday mornings, the table holds casual plates, with eggs and toast, or maybe pancakes. Some crumbs may fall to the floor. They might stay there till after lunch, when some more will fall, then they will be vacuumed away. <br /><br />Occasionally, when the babies are sleeping, the table will be taken over by scrap booking. There will be colorful papers spread all around the table. For an hour or two, Mom will sift and sort through it all, till some pages are made. Then it will get all cleaned up, and the little papers that fall to the floor will disappear. It will look as though she had never been there. <br /><br />In between it all, the table will get wiped. Toys that gather around it will be put away. The lights will be turned off. The shutters will be opened and shut, depending on the time of day. But the dining room table will not be left alone for long. It will sit quietly, watched only by the pictures on the wall, and proudly wait for the next event. Then it will come to life again.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-27829262752298499352009-12-28T09:34:00.000-08:002009-12-28T10:16:01.977-08:00Twas the Day After ChristmasTwas the day after Christmas, and all through the house, <br />There were boxes, and presents, all thrown about. <br />Toy Geo Trax, plastic fruit, kitchen items galore,<br />Opened and scattered all over the floor.<br /><br />Parent proof packaging crumpled in a ball, <br />Meant for trash in the basement, but still in the hall,<br />Boxes from and Lego sets, Bakugan too,<br />Many for me, and for them, and for you.<br /><br />Mom got her slippers, and boy they are nice,<br />Cause I’ll need to be standing on them more than twice,<br />There’s turkey pans, platters, and many a plate, <br />To be put away quickly before it gets late.<br /><br />Not too many dishes, Dad saved me from those, <br />He stayed up late washing, while I cleaned the kids’ toes,<br />Cause Anna had candy cane stuck in her hair.<br />I guess once a year she can have them, that’s fair. <br /><br />It was overwhelming when we came down the stairs,<br />And 42 tools, doctor sets, dolls and their wares,<br />Were mixed with the boxes, and books and all those.<br />But all in good fun it’s ok I suppose,<br /><br />For Christmas is time for sharing and fun, <br />And toys are a plenty, when there’s not much sun,<br />We have Winter Solstice so up go the lights,<br />To twinkle, and sparkle, and attract our sight.<br /><br />For nothing is better than seeing the eyes,<br />Of boys and girls wondering what is the surprise,<br />That arrived in the night when they were asleep,<br />Along with lots of good things they can eat.<br /><br />One hundred forty two pictures we take,<br />So we can remember the smiles they make.<br />We love them so much, and they love us too,<br />The children and family, Merry Christmas to you!Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-40748697263943985012009-11-16T14:40:00.000-08:002009-11-16T14:50:38.703-08:00Home With Baby!Today my husband brought our newborn baby and I back from the hospital. After four days, of having my blood pressure, temperture, and vital signs checked every couple hours, it is good to be home. Baby is sleeping on our king size bed, where she is safe, and can not role away. No one is telling me to not sleep next to her, and I can nurse her and leave her there, and not have to have her wake up because I had to move her to a crib. <br /><br />Today when the children came home from school, I saw their faces light up with pure smiles when they met their new sister for the first time. They were very excited to hold her, and could barely wait to see her as soon as they came in the door. The paused long enought to take off their shoes and coats and wash their hands, before dashing upstairs to see her. Eventually they noticed me also and said hi. <br /><br />As I lay in bed taking a nap with the baby this afternoon, I listened to the sounds of my family downstairs. I heard the older boys doing homework with Grandpa, while the younger asked Grandma to change her diaper, and Dad clanked around in the kitchen, cooking dinner. Anna clomped around the house in my shoes, about 10 sizes to big for her, while proclaiming, "oos! Oos!"<br /><br />This is my quiet life for a week, while I am being taken care of by my family, before Grandma and Grandpa go home, and Dad goes back to work. Now I just worry about feeding that new baby, upstairs, in bed, while life goes on without me downstairs, as I listen in the distance.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-87543667930726733052009-10-23T17:07:00.000-07:002009-10-23T17:10:33.790-07:00Time and EnergyI have free time, but not energy. Wish I had some energy to do stuff, now that everything I have to do is done, but I am nothing but tired. I’m nine months pregnant, and just a mother-ship for this little baby that is taking all my energy, and space. I lie on my side to sleep, because there is no other way to lie. I do the basic things in the house during the day, but no extras. Walking up the stairs can wear me out. I compile trips up and down stairs to when I have to go for more than one reason. Lucky I have a chore happy 6 year old who likes to take out the trash. <br /><br />I love and adore my 21 month little girl. No matter how worn down I get by my three boys, she always makes me happy and fills my heart with love. She is so sweet, and wonderful, and perfect for me. I love her presence in my life. <br /><br />Tonight my 6 year old made a beautiful painting. It has a lot of blue, which is my favorite color, and I love to look at blue paintings. I am glad he is an artist. I am glad he is so sweet. I am listening to the happy sound of him and his older brother building and playing Legos together. They are talking about what they are building and having a great time. It’s Friday night, and I love Fridays, because there are no homework battles, and no schedules to follow. The only problem is I am so tired. I want to be creative, paint or work on my scrapbook, but I don’t have the energy. It’s going to building arms and legs, fingers and toes, lungs and brain. Energy going to her, so she can be creative one day, and swim, and play, and paint, and love. I can feel good about that. Energy well spent.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-89849965950114580662009-07-17T14:14:00.000-07:002009-07-17T14:24:17.125-07:00I love the beach!This summer we have been taking trips to the beach, pond, and lake. Every time it is a blast. The kids have the greatest time just playing in the sand, and swimming out in the shallow water. It is the easiest and most relaxing activity for us, since every one is happy, everyone gets along, and no one fights or argues! Even little Anna is starting to get used to the sand. At first, she was trying to wipe if off, and making unsatisfactory noises. But today she played in it. She also triumphantly tromped along in the water, and smiled; holding my hand of course. <br /><br />The seen is the same every time we've gone. The three boys playing in the sand at the water's edge, with their shovels and buckets. They build castles, and dig holes. They take trips in to the water to fill the buckets, and dump water on their creations. Sometimes they meet other kids to play with and they all play together. <br /><br />Then they swim, and my oldest practices floating. They are not afraid of the gentle water. No matter what, I love the beach!Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-90953383153884919742009-07-17T14:12:00.000-07:002009-07-17T14:14:15.245-07:00Honestly Mom....For dinner today I made home made pizza. My five year old got to the table and said, "Mom, I don't want pizza, I want mixed up vegetables!"Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-61560610383721292552009-06-29T16:12:00.000-07:002009-06-29T16:13:29.463-07:00Klondike to the RescueTonight as I was getting dinner ready, I put the salad and the dressing out on the table. I put the salad in everyone’s bowls. <br /><br />I walked into the dining room, to find my 3 year old had left the living room and sat down at the table. He poured two bottles of salad dressing into his bowl. One I had just made. I was a little angry. <br /><br />At dinner, we had rice and steak. He decided he wanted to hide his steak in his rice. He continually got frustrated when the steak would peak out from the rice he was eating. I was silently plotting what I could do with him. He was whining and getting more frustrated. Several times I mentioned I would put him to bed if he didn’t stop. After a trip to the corner, he did stop, and proceeded to eat. Needless to say he is still alive; I didn’t kill him. I have de-stressed by taking a few bites of a Klondike bar. We don’t normally have Klondike bars, but the other day at the baseball field, I gave my son a dollar to buy a hot dog, and he bought a Klondike bar. He knows he can’t eat them; he’s lactose intolerant. I held onto it and brought it home; I knew it would come in handy for an emergency. <br /><br />Speaking of unauthorized ice cream purchases, today my two sons bought Popsicles from the ice cream truck without asking me. Now, they have been waiting for the ice cream truck to come at the right time for days. So I couldn’t really be mad. It was kind of cute actually. They got their own money to buy them. Patrick spent four of his five dollars from his wallet. I am glad that he shared with his brother. <br /><br />Now they are playing legos. And I have started to clear the table. But, since we had rice, I have a lot of rice to clean off the floor. Better get to it.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-85274596927350278702009-06-24T17:25:00.000-07:002009-06-24T17:33:15.926-07:00A Very Grumpy DayToday, the 14th day of rain in a row, (or what seems like at least 14 days) has just been too, too grumpy. Having to be inside most of the day with the boys, (who did go outside when it stopped for a while), is just too much. <br /><br />Then there was the ant problem. Yesterday, my son took out the trash like he usually does. But instead of putting the trash in the can, he just left the bag on the floor. So today, I went downstairs, and there was a trail of about a million ants from a crack in the garage floor, over to the trash bag. Grrrrrrr. Needless to say, he is now down in the garage, cleaning up dead ants with paper towels. I sprayed the ants with Windex to kill them, but they are still on the floor. <br /><br />I tried to take a nap today. This was while the kids were outside with the babysitter, who came to watch the kids while I went to the Dr. for my appointment and ultrasound. I had her stay a little while after lunch to play with the boys while Anna took a nap, and I tried to nap. But when it started to sprinkle out again, they came back in and played hide and seek. She tried to keep them on the first floor, but they were excited and made a lot of noise, so I awoke.<br /><br />So in general, I think I am just flustered with so many rainy days in a row - in June, with school out. We have not used the pool in at least two weeks, have played outside as little as the weather allowed, have been the library, and the McDonalds play place, but we can not go there every day. I am hoping tomorrow is really going to be dry like the weather promised. Otherwise, I might have to check into a mental institution. <br /><br />Well, one interesting thing did happen today. I saw my new baby in ultrasound. I didn’t find out the sex yet, I am waiting till tonight when my husband gets home. I had the technician write it down on a piece of paper for us to discover together. I am really hoping for a girl, but when she was measuring the legs, I thought I might have seen a boy, but I could be wrong, that could have been the umbilical cord. Well just have to wait and see, hope he is not home to late tonight! <br /><br />Well, now I am off to the garage to check the ant cleaning progress, and help a little. Just part of my grumpy, grumpy day! <br /><br /> ***<br /><br />A couple good things happened recently. This past weekend, Anna started to walk all by herself. She had been doing it holding on to our hands, or furniture, but she finally took independent steps on Sat. and then really got the hang of it on Sunday. She was so excited and happy and proud of herself. And we were so proud of her. Mike and I sat opposite each other, and she walked back and fourth between us. Then we moved farther apart, and she took more steps. Now she is walking all over the house, still with her arms up in the air for balance, it is very cute!<br /><br />Also, yesterday was the first day she went completely without nursing. I had been gradually cutting down on her nursing for months, and had put her to bed before without milk, but never gone a whole day without nursing. It has been a little hard for her going to bed without the nursing, but she is getting used to it. Tonight she has been having a hard time, but I just gave her some milk in a sippy cup and hugged her some more. It is 8:15 now, so hopefully she will stop crying and fall asleep soon. She is 17 months now, so I don’t feel bad. She is the only child who was learned to walk and weaned at the same time. The boys all walked at much younger ages, but that’s ok. I’m glad she is walking now!Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-56835231823669019422009-06-22T18:49:00.000-07:002009-06-22T18:52:25.651-07:00Pregnancy Number one......Versus Number FivePregnancy Number One<br /><br />Receive lots of attention at work, because everyone is so excited that you are going to have a baby. Receive surprise baby shower at work. Spend time looking through baby name books, and decorating the baby's room. Visit family for another baby shower. <br /><br />A few weeks before the baby is supposed to be born, start maternity leave. Spend the days napping, relaxing, talking on the phone, taking walks, and doing occasional housework uninterrupted. Shop for maternity clothes, and start collecting baby gear. Receive phone calls from husband during the day to ask how I am doing. <br /><br />Pregnancy Number Five<br /><br />Get up at 6:30 to rescue one year old from her crib. Bring her into our room to try to pacify her for a few minutes until the sun comes up. Hear chatter of two boys playing in the next room. Hope that the oldest sleeps for a little while longer. <br /><br />Spend the day keeping kids happy and occupied and playing referee, cooking, going to library and playgrounds, and anywhere to keep us from being stuck at home all day. Try to fit in laundry and dishes along the way, and keep the house reasonably clean. Refill sippy cups, hug the tearful, and keep going on....<br /><br />At 6 pm receive phone call from husband that he is going to be working late. <br /><br />At 7:00, having put the baby to bed, feel incredibly tired and lay down for a few minutes. Briefly fall asleep, then wake at 7:30 to reluctantly start another bedtime routine with younger two boys. Get their teeth brushed, change them to pajamas, read them stories. Tuck them in and then, just as you thought you were done, get them water, because they are begging as if their life depends on it. <br /><br />Come downstairs to try to maybe relax for a minute. Oldest son sees you and announces that he is hungry. Sit on the couch and tell him to find something in the fridge, and let him microwave it himself. Tell him to clean up after himself. Walk into the kitchen and see that he has already gone upstairs. Put the leftovers away. Then give him a bath and supervise teeth brushing, and make sure he puts on pajamas. Tell him goodnight. <br /><br />Come downstairs and see that it is now 9:30. Just another 15 hour day.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-34111959110537623362009-03-02T07:42:00.000-08:002009-03-02T08:32:10.893-08:00Jamaica<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs-wDGUCeq3Rjhpi_2jRZ66GyNVFnjeJSK759n7r_SQj1mwIxw1b_HLoIi2Q-AL4IKuRogT0VjCuH1am8iK65HRIwZr390nv6CedK7KDWF4nCfN-Fvgs57hfW_ZyziamnL0Q7cDF5CBfk/s1600-h/IMG_3109.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgs-wDGUCeq3Rjhpi_2jRZ66GyNVFnjeJSK759n7r_SQj1mwIxw1b_HLoIi2Q-AL4IKuRogT0VjCuH1am8iK65HRIwZr390nv6CedK7KDWF4nCfN-Fvgs57hfW_ZyziamnL0Q7cDF5CBfk/s400/IMG_3109.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5308616967255137250" /></a><br /> Interesting Signage<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVi245ODS8mVu_REN4wGP7UjVuItLaOghP0tWLET5cszhbWEnYGhKH4Jr_b2tS9023_P8vfHholzDNA-tgD8GWwAZPOPqn4PkpfkZTHWFgTrsqacoAP47Y3fygIToyIQciwZdC9iWNzwU/s1600-h/IMG_3113.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiVi245ODS8mVu_REN4wGP7UjVuItLaOghP0tWLET5cszhbWEnYGhKH4Jr_b2tS9023_P8vfHholzDNA-tgD8GWwAZPOPqn4PkpfkZTHWFgTrsqacoAP47Y3fygIToyIQciwZdC9iWNzwU/s400/IMG_3113.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5308617243260265426" /></a><br /> On the way to Negril from Montego Bay Airport<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwL6m_TQOAztYXY9r1GVMt3DvI0WG6czLRhI2rdhOhjBDrHEcUwwNlHyrC21UAr3ZBTrdUN3b-UY2vvjRgLsOk8_JDwJQ5Jru35n6wpdbdctutKciiHOcUhXAzwC_m_mloLnY6RK4hLGA/s1600-h/IMG_3125.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwL6m_TQOAztYXY9r1GVMt3DvI0WG6czLRhI2rdhOhjBDrHEcUwwNlHyrC21UAr3ZBTrdUN3b-UY2vvjRgLsOk8_JDwJQ5Jru35n6wpdbdctutKciiHOcUhXAzwC_m_mloLnY6RK4hLGA/s400/IMG_3125.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5308617844743788146" /></a><br /> On The Beach<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwg7Fg-g0Je0Btbp2W8iVoByT47ngPvx0aaUcwxHh8fUC2rc50FWlNN5dsrMoMeMxJdOCKeyzS2fe-HD9YE5LkSjWPxEkMza43039huU0EqO8f5oKQFSA8sMpNdCeOJfz19eJ1yWdClFA/s1600-h/IMG_3124.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwg7Fg-g0Je0Btbp2W8iVoByT47ngPvx0aaUcwxHh8fUC2rc50FWlNN5dsrMoMeMxJdOCKeyzS2fe-HD9YE5LkSjWPxEkMza43039huU0EqO8f5oKQFSA8sMpNdCeOJfz19eJ1yWdClFA/s400/IMG_3124.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5308617835335848962" /></a><br /> Walk on the Beach<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvWAehcCdAasu_QH7nJccLxP0RkxmFPS00HiKzk1f-vUu7U8XkM3Lx0wHAGstpFC45YTynRxCeeUCOCDGgJ_4EOSqX-GlmoBNweinTDONgDAq7D9xVZXLGNzhdGKNosXszJVYDRIaCEHk/s1600-h/IMG_3126.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvWAehcCdAasu_QH7nJccLxP0RkxmFPS00HiKzk1f-vUu7U8XkM3Lx0wHAGstpFC45YTynRxCeeUCOCDGgJ_4EOSqX-GlmoBNweinTDONgDAq7D9xVZXLGNzhdGKNosXszJVYDRIaCEHk/s400/IMG_3126.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5308618883285836882" /></a><br /> View from the room<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLQa6Cr95xICoporQfyAMveGJJEe5Kw43kvtTBu4hgVhz9IIzuQ331fXPI9AVdNjFUMeDH2FJfQmssShG8rhjtLJPb02bWrmpEaMHnvpNchxcaVQRKhXU8-wTeqpIdCZH35iLs9FvxGl0/s1600-h/IMG_3144.JPG"><img style="display:block; 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The skins fall into the sink and I look out the kitchen window. The light is fading, the sky turning less vibrant. Earlier, as I was feeding the baby in her room with the curtains closed, the bright light burst through and the room and was unusually luminous. The bright burst before the light starts to fade. <br /><br />As I get ready to peel potatoes, the clean dishes I just washed drying in the strainer beside me, I feel the lonely sadness of darkness washing over me. This is the lonely time of the day, the transition to evening. The kids are watching Curious George, quiet now, after the days noise and excitement has calmed. The library books we collected this afternoon sit on the bench waiting for us to read after dinner. For now, everyone is quiet, and hungry, their fuel tanks almost empty. Soon I will peel the potatoes, put them in the water to boil, but for now I pause to feel the glumness of the lonely hour. I start thinking about my husband coming home. Will he be here for dinner tonight? Or will he be working late, and I will eat alone with the kids again. I hope the baby sleeps for a while so I can at least feed the kids in peace. Only a couple more hours now for the kids to be awake. Soon enough it will be time to bath them, and change them into pajamas. Then rub their backs, sing them a song, and say prayers. Then I will be able to sit down for a while, read a book maybe, after I do the dishes and clean up a little. I will have accepted the night by then, officially dark, it’s less lonely than this gray time, not light, not dark – the lonely hour.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-21951735148911607182009-02-04T16:29:00.000-08:002009-02-04T16:34:22.702-08:00Crazy over PokèmonIt all started with the bookfair. Last year, I sent my 4 year old son to pre-school with 5 or 10 dollars to buy something with his class. He came home with a book about Pokèmon characters. My son was in the habit of carrying his current favorite possession every where he goes, so I didn’t think anything of it when the new book accompanied him to bed, to meals, safely tucked under him in his chair at dinner, to baseball games, and just about everywhere. This went on for about two weeks. The book was tattered and bent within the first few days, and it looked like it had been around forever. At night when putting him to bed, or during the day, he would ask me to read a few pages from the book.<br /><br />As time went by, he stopped carrying the book everywhere, but still always knew where it was. One day in the toy store, we picked up a small package of Pokèmon cards. When we got home, him and his brother, not knowing how to play the real game, invented their own version, and acted it out. They talked about Powers, and Pikachu's, and all kinds of things. <br /><br />The Pokèmon cards were kept safely in a drawer, but accessed often, and very popular with the boys. At some point, they became lost in our house, a phenomenon that is not completely foreign to us, as every so often a sneaker, or a library book, or something coveted will mysteriously disappear. Anyway, when Christmas time came around, Santa brought the boys each a Pokèmon trainer deck, and my son (now 5) a Pikachu stuffed animal. So the day after Christmas, Dad sat with the boys, read the rules, and explained the game. He helped them play a few rounds. He seemed to have fun, and I was glad that the boys were playing together, and I had nothing to do with it. <br /><br />That night however, wanting to be able to play with another grown up, he said he wanted me to play a game with him. I reluctantly agreed, hoping it would be over soon, so I could go to bed. But when we started playing, a funny thing happened, and I actually enjoyed the game! It was fun. I wanted to win. I got competitive. Over the next few days of Christmas vacation, my husband and I played a few more games. Then one night, he and the boys came home and stuck something under the tree. “I got you something,” my husband said. We put the youngest to bed, and then I opened it, I was my own Pokèmon deck. I was feeling a little silly, but strangely excited, this was not a trainer deck, it was a real deck, and it was mine. That night, we tried it out. He used one of the kid’s decks and I used my new deck. It was far superior. I liked it! I won most of the games. <br /><br />Every time we got a new deck, my husband checked the value of each card. He found a few that were worth a few dollars, and put them aside. A few days after giving me my deck, he came home with a deck of his own. Then we played each other with our decks to try them out together. His new deck was pretty powerful, and quite superior to mine. I didn’t stand a chance. We played a few more games, and talked about how we could really get into this, and buy individual special cards, and spend a lot of time on it. He mentioned that there are Pokèmon tournaments, with real serious players. We decided that we would not be buying any more cards, or spending any more money on the game, but still, we saw how fun it could be. Soon after, his vacation ended, and he went back to work. We stopped playing Pokèmon. But the kids still like it, and ask us to play with them, or they play a game together. Mostly, they just act it out, and play their imagination games, my younger son holding his Pikachu. On school library day, the kids sometimes bring home Pokèmon books from school. Pikachu rides to school in my sons backpack every day, and comes out every night, and is thrown around and played with. So, all in all, the kids are crazy for Pokèmon. And I can’t really blame them!Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-54782032055256595602009-01-22T08:33:00.000-08:002009-01-22T08:37:06.079-08:00The Power of FoodMy mom always said “Don’t tell a man any bad news before dinner.” This I have found to be good advice. My husband always comes home hungry, and I always have his dinner ready before he arrives. It makes for a better evening. <br /><br />As for the kids, I have just witnessed a 180-degree turn around in their attitude and behavior after feeding them dinner. My two sons arrived home on the bus and went over to play cars on the cars rug. Immediately, my tired un-napped three year old starting crying, and there was yelling and arguing. I sent one child upstairs, then still some more crying from the three year old. Nothing seemed to be working. I brought Thomas upstairs to try to put him to sleep, maybe a late nap is better than none? I brought Joe back down and the two older kids started playing some board games. <br /><br />After a few minutes, I started getting some questions about dinner. I got the meatloaf into the oven a little late, because the baby was tired, and had to be nursed. So by five they were all getting loud and starving. The three year old was back downstairs, refusing to go to sleep again. There was arguing, and short tempers, and repeated, “Mom, he…(insert problem here)….” I was starting to get worried. What has happened to my family? I wondered where have I gone wrong? I thought I had taught them well, taught them to share, and be nice or at least civil to one another. <br /><br />Eventually, my oldest couldn’t wait. “Where is the meatloaf?” he asked, rather shortly. “It’s coming, it’s cooking,” I told him. I brought out the side dishes, and made a box of mac and cheese to tide them over. Joe sat down and started eating. He told his brothers dinner was ready. He was still a little grumpy, but his empty tummy was filling up. I made some suggestions about being nice, about talking kindly to each other, about not yelling and caring about your brother. When he finished eating, he said, “Now I am going to read some books.” Ok with me. <br /><br />I started feeding the baby her jar food. I looked over into the living room. Joe was sitting nicely, reading a book to my three year old. So sweetly, showing him the letters. How kind I thought. These are my wonderful children. He is teaching his brother, and they are happy together. It amazes me how I can have such opposite emotions toward my children in such a short period of time. How I can go from hopeless, to delighted, all in the span of a few minutes. <br /><br />Now they are making music together. Playing on the keyboard, making songs. There is cheerful talking, excited conversation. I love my children, I can be proud of them, now that they are fed. <br /><br />I sat at the dinner table and made myself a list. <br /><br />1. Put Thomas down for a nap by two pm.<br />2. Have a good snack ready before the school bus arrives.<br />3. Have dinner ready by 5 pm. <br /><br />I don’t know if I will follow it. Things don’t always go according to plan. Some days then come home hungry, and will eat a snack. Other days they will wait for dinner. In any case, food makes everything better. And naps help too.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-37021584936092799902009-01-17T10:03:00.000-08:002009-01-17T10:18:31.836-08:00Augmentin and BananasThe woman behind the counter at Burger King must have thought my three boys needed to get in touch with their feminine side, because she gave the three of them Mini Cabbage Patch dolls for their kids meal toys. I thought about exchanging them for boy toys, but I really didn’t want to wait in the lunchtime line just for that. I asked the boys if they wanted to give the dolls to Anna, Joe said yes. In the car, I gave out the dolls and the younger boys said they liked them. They will play with them for a day, then they will loose interest, like every other kids meal toy. Then Anna will have three dolls just for her. <br /><br />I don’t know how, but Anna managed to get a second ear infection while taking antibiotics for an ear infection in her first ear. Her right ear has had several ear infections already, but how she got another one while on medicine, I don’t know. Yesterday, on the 11th day after the start of antibiotics, she went to the Dr. for an ear check. They looked in both ears and said she was fine. She looked fine to me too, and was happy, with no ear drainage, which had cleared up on the 2nd day of medicine. <br /><br />However, yesterday afternoon, Anna would not take a nap. She nursed to sleep, but as soon as I put her in her crib she awoke. Then last night, the same thing happened. I brought her downstairs with Mike and I to watch a movie. She played for a while, and usually when she is with us, I can get her to sleep, but it didn’t work. I brought her up to her room, nursed her to sleep and went back down to finish the movie. Of course, when it ended and we came to bed, she cried again. I was too tired to sit with her in her room, so brought her to my bed to nurse. She tried, but cried a loud cry, and would not settle down. This went on, till Mike got frustrated and went to sleep on the couch. I got frustrated too, and went back to her room and tried to nurse her some more. Eventually, I just put her down in her crib where she cried for a while and then fell asleep. <br /><br />This morning the ear drainage was back and she felt warm. I knew right away the infection was back, so called the Dr. I rounded up the boys and off we went to the Dr’s office, after a stern warning for them to be on their best behavior. They agreed, and we actually got a good parking spot today. I was really glad we did not have to park in West Bumbleland, as is usually the case lately at the Dr.’s office. Today is Saturday, so they were not as crowded. I am really glad the office is open on Saturday’s because I didn’t want to go though two more nights of crying. <br /><br />When we got into the office and checked in, the kids went to the fish tank, and we got called in quick. The Doctor looked at Anna, and found that both ears were now infected. She was surprised that the nurse practitioner had found Anna ok yesterday. I told her she did look fine yesterday. So, the Dr. prescribed Augmentin, an antibiotic that works well on those who are antibiotic resistant. I remembered Anna using this once before, when the first amoxicillin treatment didn’t work. I mentally kicked myself that I had not asked for this in the first place 11 days ago when I brought her in with the first infection. But after all, they are the Dr’s, it’s their job to notice these things on her chart isn’t it? Now maybe I will remember this next time, I hope, but when we are at the Dr. I usually have at least one more child with me, and can’t always remember these things. And the Dr. has many patients to see, and probably doesn’t spend adequate time analyzing Anna’s history on her chart. So, I have to be her advocate. <br /><br />The boys were very good at the Dr.s office. On the ride over, Joe produced a Dollar bill and a coin, and asked if we could get a Whopper Junior. I said maybe and took a mental note that I would bring them burgers after the apointment if they were good. So, after dropping off Anna’s prescription, we went over to BK and got three kids meals and I got a Whopper Jr., fries, and drink from the dollar menu. Joe was still hungry after he finished, so I let him go up to the counter and order another burger, and pay with his dollar and change, as I watched from our booth. The kids were good at the restaurant too, so the Saturday morning I was dreading turned out to be good. When we got home, Anna ate a jar of bananas laced with Augmentin, and she is happy. Hopefully by tonight, with two doses of medicine in her, she will sleep. Now, I have to go about folding and putting away laundry and dishes and all that jazz. Mike will be home for dinner after his day of Scout Leader training, and we can have a normal Saturday night. Hopefully, this will be Anna’s last ear infection of the season, and Spring will come soon. Now, about that laundry....Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-29026345399014221582009-01-11T16:46:00.000-08:002009-01-11T17:03:14.696-08:00Far off Dream........I wonder when I will have time to sit down and read a book, or paint my nails, or do something without being interrupted. It is 7:46 and I just got three kids into bed. My oldest is still up, and he is reading, so I don't have to worry about him for the next 10 minutes. Soon I will bring him upstairs, get him ready, and he will go to sleep. Then I might come back down, try to watch TV, or read, but I will only last a few minutes before I fall asleep on the couch. <br /><br />I would like to go on vacation, without kids. I wonder how many years it will be before that will happen? At this point, I would be happy just to go somewhere where I can relax, and spend an entire day our two without cooking, washing dishes, doing laundry, paying bills, taking a kid to the bathroom, and refereeing over toys. Instead I would like to spend my day swimming in a heated swimming pool, eating in a fancy restaurant, going to the spa, playing tennis, reading a book by the water, or laying on a beach. Oh yeah, and my husband can come too.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-72263210874321615202009-01-03T18:50:00.001-08:002009-01-03T19:28:51.938-08:00UndecoratingI undecorated the Christmas tree today. It was sad, not always fun to take cheer out of the house, but necessary. Christmas can't last forever. So, for now, our cheer is stored in plastic bins, to be put away till next season. They will sit on a shelf in the basement, dormant, for 11 months, until they come to life again next December. <br /><br />My three year old son helped me take ornaments off the tree. Putting up the tree and taking it down, are the only two times we really stop to look at each ornament. He was excited to identify each one as he took them down; the house, and the bears, “the man” (a nutcracker), and the ornaments his brother’s made. The rest of the time the tree is in the background, or lighting the room. We see the collection of ornaments and decorations, but don't stop to examine each one. Each year when putting the decorations up, we stop to notice our favorite ornaments. Our tree is a collection of decorations from each of our childhoods, new ornaments we bought as a couple, and now ornaments that our kids have made. It evolves every year, with a few new ornaments each season. There are name ornaments for each child, and since this was Anna's first Christmas, we added her first ornament, a little snowman globe, to the branches. <br /><br />We were so excited to start decorating this year, to hang stockings over the fireplace, and set up the crèche. We went around the house, looking for places to put the wreath, and other door ornaments, and I put out Christmas towels in the bathroom. We waited till the week before Christmas to put up the tree, because of the baby, who we knew would be interested in it’s beauty. So we were ready by the time it went up to welcome it into our living room. <br /><br />I remember back to my childhood, walking past the living room at night, to the still quiet of the Christmas tree. The cold room, the pine smell, and plugging the lights into the floor to see the colors light up. I would stay there a few moments, soaking it in, and noticing the new presents put there by my siblings when no one was looking. <br /><br />My baby was good this year, and great around the tree. She would look at it, but she didn’t touch. For the better part of 2 weeks she left the tree alone. It wasn’t until the last couple days that she started to pull ornaments down. <br /><br />So, this last weekend of our Christmas vacation, we started to take down the tree. Tonight the plastic bins came back up from the basement, and I filled them up with ornaments. The tinsel and the lights are still up; my husband will pack them away tomorrow. And now that everyone has gone to sleep, I just might go back into the living room, turn the lights on, and enjoy the still quiet of the Christmas tree one last time.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-88389406839585561602008-12-22T09:53:00.000-08:002008-12-22T11:28:25.622-08:00Glad to See the Sun Again!After three days of constant snow, and cold so cold that our shower pipe froze, even with the heat on, I woke up today to see the sun! It is glorious be be out of the gloom, I was simply getting depressed with all the gray. Perhaps I have seasonal affective disorder, I almost started crying yesterday. However, now that the sun is back with blue skies, and bright white snow sparkling all around, I am smiling again. Part of my sadness probably had to do with being trapped in the house. There was too much snow to drive for three days, and we live on a hill that the snowplows completely ignored yesterday, until late afternoon. <br /><br />So, we spent the day baking. We made Macaroon cookies, brownies, and jello with bananas. This was my husbands idea, since Christmas is coming. I am not a big fan of having tons of sweets around the house, because I know I will eat a little piece here, a little piece there, and before you know it, Mom has eaten half of the desert herself. But, I let him do his baking, after all it is a Christmas tradition. I also over heard him on the phone asking my mother in law to make whoopie pies and snicker doodles. "Tell her to only bring a Few of each," I told him. I don't want to fall victim to those too....<br /><br />So, last night after dinner, the kids were excited because they knew we were having desert. My husband decided to make a nice presentation with each person's plate containing one brownie with mint topping, one scoop of strawberry jello with bananas, once scoop of orange jello with bananas, one macaroon cookie, and to top it all off, a spoonful of ice cream. <br /><br />Now, it had been snowing all day, and the kids had gone out earlier to play while the younger two napped, and mom frantically tried to start her Christmas wrapping. Then, our oldest boy went out again to shovel the walk again, so they had worked up an appetite. Dad had not yet snowblowed the driveway since the day before, because the snow had not stopped. I had just spent the better part of the last two hours making Risotto. So, we sat down to dinner, then Dad brought out the desert. The kids loved it, and asked for more jello, and another scoop of ice cream. I wasn't sure if this was really a good idea, but agreed since it was a Christmas time desert, and we normally don't have any desert. But I really should have reconsidered, because my husband decided right after desert was the time to go out and snowblow the driveway. "Now," I asked? "Yeah, why not?" he said. "You just gave them three pounds of sugar and now you are going to leave?" Great. And I was right, as soon as he left the sugar hit, and they all went a little crazy. <br /><br />Right after dinner is not my favorite time of the day, it's when I have to clean up, do the dishes, clean up the baby, get everyone settled down, and start thinking about bedtime for the kids. I knew they were a little excited, and school vacation had started, so I let them play for a while. I started doing dishes till I heard Thomas crying. I walk into the living room, and he said someone hurt him. I also discovered that he had pooped, and that they had dumped out the puzzle bin, containing 20 puzzles and at least 300 pieces on the floor. A little dismayed, I took Thomas, grabbed the baby, and went upstairs to give Thomas a bath. I started his bath, but he did not want to come out, so I said he could play a little longer and changed baby into her pajamas and started nursing her. This did not last two long before we were interrupted by noise, so I gave up and put her down to play while I got Thomas out of the bath and ready for bed. He didn't want to brush his teeth, but I had to insist due to the sugar just consumed. So I managed to brush his teeth, and get him changed and into bed to look at his books. Then I went back to the baby's room to nurse her to sleep, this time with success. <br /><br />I headed back downstairs only to discover that none of the puzzle pieces had been put back into their box. So, I told the boys they have to clean up the puzzles. This didn't work too well at first, until I reminded them that they have to clean them up or Santa won't come. So, they started making a game out of it, throwing the pieces into the box. This was not what I wanted to see, with my nightly exhaustion setting in, and the snow blower still groaning loudly. I threw out some more reminders about Santa, insisting that I would call him if needed. Eventually, I layed down of the couch and started falling asleep. One of my sons came over for a hug, and we snuggled for a while. Then the other wanted a turn so I told Patrick to go lay on the other couch while I snuggled Joe. I was too tired to go upstairs and put them to bed, I was just out of energy. <br /><br />After a power nap, and waking up to noise again, I was ready to mean business and we got the rest of the puzzles cleaned up. Then the boys heard the snow blower stop, and Daddy coming in. Joe ran upstairs, and I took Patrick to his room to get on his pajamas. <br /><br />Now that they were in bed, I decided to resume my wrapping. I opened my bedroom door that had been barricaded to keep the kiddies out of the presents. My husband came up and took a shower to warm up from the cold (now that our shower was finally defrosted). He was happy to be done with the snow, and smiled for the first time in a while. My mood was starting to improve, knowing that the snow was done. Now that our driveway was free, we would not be stuck at home forever, as it had previously seemed. I asked him if he would mind picking up a prescription for one of the children that we needed for the morning. <br /><br />So, as I look out now, I am glad to see clear roads, and blue skies. We are out of the darkness, but I won't be giving out any deserts to the kids today, at least not until Dad gets home.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-83754436160078937102008-12-14T11:40:00.000-08:002008-12-17T18:38:03.045-08:00The Ice Storm, Beautiful Destruction<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxjkCFORQ0Zi3JxOZYFiFonAVI2FlHAjA3JseKQgT6Gjaw0kVB_8EBxdj9fvLfXS641RePqc1l4H2xWjdN7zBy4YwC8Wo9nZWhv_KLlvREPkOZi-SeFW7NVyKvF-JYEvVDJH7BaVio-CE/s1600-h/074.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxjkCFORQ0Zi3JxOZYFiFonAVI2FlHAjA3JseKQgT6Gjaw0kVB_8EBxdj9fvLfXS641RePqc1l4H2xWjdN7zBy4YwC8Wo9nZWhv_KLlvREPkOZi-SeFW7NVyKvF-JYEvVDJH7BaVio-CE/s400/074.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280948308278792210" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzARpCVpd8TyNEEb5Mi0je3eLbzCBP5rjrFDlmwiS45kYBbIgIoG441VIq2Uqw7D-PSNJ395_ivl0hpWBzIeQ6SVyfZYfq5nMGfsXEGqRTmhmt8Voe_E9my_d6T838of_mYwRRajS0tgE/s1600-h/071.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzARpCVpd8TyNEEb5Mi0je3eLbzCBP5rjrFDlmwiS45kYBbIgIoG441VIq2Uqw7D-PSNJ395_ivl0hpWBzIeQ6SVyfZYfq5nMGfsXEGqRTmhmt8Voe_E9my_d6T838of_mYwRRajS0tgE/s400/071.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280948298939439298" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqLX3aPM7F39ErkbU80yacWBMd_-JqTXQZkajPS_UzKpjr4z23AAwIJ1cmxnXwlo9sEIjt06qJjTRdMHvnZHSDXRrnpfVXLBmXCZ0z5XwJWRKHR70K5YwBvSGmf-risIsR3-mPIhRahyo/s1600-h/067.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqLX3aPM7F39ErkbU80yacWBMd_-JqTXQZkajPS_UzKpjr4z23AAwIJ1cmxnXwlo9sEIjt06qJjTRdMHvnZHSDXRrnpfVXLBmXCZ0z5XwJWRKHR70K5YwBvSGmf-risIsR3-mPIhRahyo/s400/067.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280948285432065842" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTIoFTU7VjxkgyTXM9bz20RpzaTDgjxn1Ib31ttGlSa84oT5AgL_F6JF2wm5t2F3Zlziyat82PcqY1xuCY2bMZouNh-sERab-8IcLbNZq0YYMiBPKaIanxwn6Q2asls6fatdItki1I27M/s1600-h/059.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhTIoFTU7VjxkgyTXM9bz20RpzaTDgjxn1Ib31ttGlSa84oT5AgL_F6JF2wm5t2F3Zlziyat82PcqY1xuCY2bMZouNh-sERab-8IcLbNZq0YYMiBPKaIanxwn6Q2asls6fatdItki1I27M/s400/059.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280948277228945106" /></a><br /><br />All through the night we heard cracks and booms. We had heard there would be freezing rain, but expected nothing like this. The first big bang we heard was a transformer blowing. The rest of the noises were trees falling and branches breaking. Every time I fell back asleep, I awoke to a few more trees breaking. I had no idea of the time, because the power was out. At one point, we were wide awake, so I checked the cell phone. 3 am, in noisy darkness.<br /><br />At first light, he got up and looked out the window. "Come here, you have to see this," he said. Reluctantly, I got up from bed and came to the window. Wow, what I saw was amazing. The whole world was covered in ice. The trees, the grass, everything. Branches were coated an inch thick.<br /><br />Before I even got dressed, I grabbed my camera and my snow mocs and stepped outside. It did not feel cold, after being in the cold house all night, the air felt warm. Excitedly, I walked around the yard in my pajamas taking pictures. The early morning sky was slightly gray, but the ice was beautiful nonetheless. The mailbox, the trees, the tricycle, everything was covered; the basketball hoop sported icicles. After a quick lap, I came back in to share the excitement with my family. He noticed the broken branches and took a turn to step outside. I sent my oldest outside too, but he came back in and said, "Dad doesn't want me out here, it's too dangerous."<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibfbHnCR-OrzSYpgoLjNVrkc591lPWXod6oPG0Kc5MpBTxuALExy47CLdOgX1Z5w4UguzcCmOp5OWIW9onnGKAGkKk3OmCJIqGLaGgtL1lrN16PDO89_QfCt_z-CSzTt5uGyK44tEeppg/s1600-h/026.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEibfbHnCR-OrzSYpgoLjNVrkc591lPWXod6oPG0Kc5MpBTxuALExy47CLdOgX1Z5w4UguzcCmOp5OWIW9onnGKAGkKk3OmCJIqGLaGgtL1lrN16PDO89_QfCt_z-CSzTt5uGyK44tEeppg/s400/026.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280934239478745394" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQCJyAURb4_9tkyEmzLowt6QQx_-QiII0PK-kcVZWE1h8PZWVKqbAZY_7-z712eGy15syYBv84mp0UJjoHKkWp7os6Ca_jg7W6dkB9m2zG5-YDBY209VDsmFq1olU3ZmxGgA0-OzlDlGc/s1600-h/022.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQCJyAURb4_9tkyEmzLowt6QQx_-QiII0PK-kcVZWE1h8PZWVKqbAZY_7-z712eGy15syYBv84mp0UJjoHKkWp7os6Ca_jg7W6dkB9m2zG5-YDBY209VDsmFq1olU3ZmxGgA0-OzlDlGc/s400/022.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280934226590303202" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1TDHcvkS5eHw7A5BDkICOOPm-R1HaxmGGFmyUZw0ws6c5SpAzPmE5xPx-BNysyoqi_fBuUzfZkKR5z77UBN9KDaylfDBEKZrE1QeJAbfmJor_B3JJKxvI8IigDauA5hwty-esEYJRz60/s1600-h/021.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1TDHcvkS5eHw7A5BDkICOOPm-R1HaxmGGFmyUZw0ws6c5SpAzPmE5xPx-BNysyoqi_fBuUzfZkKR5z77UBN9KDaylfDBEKZrE1QeJAbfmJor_B3JJKxvI8IigDauA5hwty-esEYJRz60/s400/021.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280934220074524178" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSfSJz6Oz3JBvkz06lqUB_i0hCfuQCLLUwwAw1pyx5LnNjJHXGn0q3bHneomwQBDf4X-_RaM3rbaqe8U4NM6O8sIT8LvJTd6ov-dZqiTo6ksri1_i_1RSJ5nRowKF3OhhA9GAoJSIOOuQ/s1600-h/043.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhSfSJz6Oz3JBvkz06lqUB_i0hCfuQCLLUwwAw1pyx5LnNjJHXGn0q3bHneomwQBDf4X-_RaM3rbaqe8U4NM6O8sIT8LvJTd6ov-dZqiTo6ksri1_i_1RSJ5nRowKF3OhhA9GAoJSIOOuQ/s400/043.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280935150815182626" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIs2DQ5CcUANocaE_469Z2d7Ki0kileJwOgWXneM84-a0IxKdJxPmql58t4t4IB0_DArj-qrgB0oqR1rdecJmVOIR74wGYT7_vx8pFpgAsR6ad5EOkOi8344QJmKOzRRHCKXHDE-h-9ro/s1600-h/017.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIs2DQ5CcUANocaE_469Z2d7Ki0kileJwOgWXneM84-a0IxKdJxPmql58t4t4IB0_DArj-qrgB0oqR1rdecJmVOIR74wGYT7_vx8pFpgAsR6ad5EOkOi8344QJmKOzRRHCKXHDE-h-9ro/s400/017.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280953256320815730" /></a><br /><br />After getting dressed, I took the camera outside again. This time the sky was a little brighter, and the neighbors were out too. Our street was now blocked by a 25 year old pine tree that wasn't there an hour ago. Tire tracks adorned the edge of our yard where someone tried to get around the tree. As we stood, more trees and branches fell around us. We heard cracks and witnessed the destruction as weighty branches fell.<br /><br />As amazing as the landscape was, I had to go back in and check on the kids. I quickly snapped pictures of blades of grass covered in ice. Looking out the back windows of the house, I saw power lines sagging, more trees down.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg32WboHlhau0aUrggcPdHLgL3Qoe0Jfyx6udrwqXlorsJQ3vSdMrRWGV8JWDTZTMFh2pgru5WDAyTirfDJc9pR5RN4RE_VvVRUkwJFMk23DpkYlUgJHaNSlYGSbZ97_jKRFP87RUAj-pM/s1600-h/056.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg32WboHlhau0aUrggcPdHLgL3Qoe0Jfyx6udrwqXlorsJQ3vSdMrRWGV8JWDTZTMFh2pgru5WDAyTirfDJc9pR5RN4RE_VvVRUkwJFMk23DpkYlUgJHaNSlYGSbZ97_jKRFP87RUAj-pM/s400/056.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280936785239776786" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjedovCDjNbdmvZPR3HRAUS5oqLVx4yu3HIhzZeCdGqMH8BIlUG6XjDBGoh2VQljCEk-Mafdi1zU7j_TGpJ8oLwhhfOzWwaqwzLUAp5284KyAfbmCWch4Qpw4R2UYqnwQzU8aVicaVAr30/s1600-h/054.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjedovCDjNbdmvZPR3HRAUS5oqLVx4yu3HIhzZeCdGqMH8BIlUG6XjDBGoh2VQljCEk-Mafdi1zU7j_TGpJ8oLwhhfOzWwaqwzLUAp5284KyAfbmCWch4Qpw4R2UYqnwQzU8aVicaVAr30/s400/054.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280936781761894642" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8LrbkxGlytvM6C1R8FQDoZ3qg9wSHyiJcT_-3_dOQJvk55t1XJYtg_ZovvJ3N3AnNuLk_Jd7fYz6suphqx2cNWFwzKDo6AiR1mt0qV4aSgpPR_oF-SPVQdoIGChA4Jfx73Z1J4_Vv8bc/s1600-h/051.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8LrbkxGlytvM6C1R8FQDoZ3qg9wSHyiJcT_-3_dOQJvk55t1XJYtg_ZovvJ3N3AnNuLk_Jd7fYz6suphqx2cNWFwzKDo6AiR1mt0qV4aSgpPR_oF-SPVQdoIGChA4Jfx73Z1J4_Vv8bc/s400/051.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280936768360094946" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeTQ-uMjphmxuIiF_9yzN8NVnb0H7H0gYHQl3aRyhyphenhyphenCDiExZZDP75MWvA4tUBbfOTtbwUBleF83CY_0_8uSuKrLApJtx3Pt2wtrqzlkxPYPas1o_IEWqX76Yf8x5JVGvYvoUGoJcQU6PQ/s1600-h/048.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeTQ-uMjphmxuIiF_9yzN8NVnb0H7H0gYHQl3aRyhyphenhyphenCDiExZZDP75MWvA4tUBbfOTtbwUBleF83CY_0_8uSuKrLApJtx3Pt2wtrqzlkxPYPas1o_IEWqX76Yf8x5JVGvYvoUGoJcQU6PQ/s400/048.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280936758413787634" /></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRTyZo47bdk0pWJAq4OwTZzzDo3-ZLFGibShYtNFQBEbp4D1aQx76iHzj8BWVsWspqNTUkvwpXkULUnCG1agk2rS-yXZlSJ2ww2ZNVrrkLKdIOH04N4HreGHsx4hdNSN7c2KbfBZdP_go/s1600-h/047.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRTyZo47bdk0pWJAq4OwTZzzDo3-ZLFGibShYtNFQBEbp4D1aQx76iHzj8BWVsWspqNTUkvwpXkULUnCG1agk2rS-yXZlSJ2ww2ZNVrrkLKdIOH04N4HreGHsx4hdNSN7c2KbfBZdP_go/s400/047.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5280936749418706754" /></a><br /><br />When I went in, he came out with his chainsaw to clear the road. A few minutes later, our neighbor came out to help, and together they chopped the pine tree away. For an hour, they chopped, and shoveled the tree and icy branches off the road. The city truck came by surveying the damage, and then a bulldozer came to take away the remains.<br /><br />My neighbor said she had never seen anything like this in their 12 years here. Our street on the hill does get more wind and wild weather than our old house, but this was an anomaly. The city of ice, beautiful destruction. For all the crazy weather of the world, hurricanes, tornadoes, tsunamis, snowstorms, I'll take an ice storm any day, at least it's pretty.<br /><br />I sit in my parents house now, two days later, typing away. We have checked the power grid, 8,000 people still without power in our city. A call to the neighbor revealed that our street is still in the stone age, no electricity. We drained the water before we left, so are hoping for no pipes burst upon our return. If anything, we are enjoying out visit with my parents. It is nice to be warm, and the fellowship is good too. All summer I tried to get us here, and as my husband said, "it took for Hell to freeze over," but we're here. :)<br /><br />We have been having a great time at Grandma and Grandpa's so far. Twice they babysat the younger kids while we went for walks with only two, or one child; first down by the harbor, then around the block. We got to go out to lunch with no kids, and today we built a fire outside and roasted marshmallows. The 3 boys are having a fun sleeping on air mattresses all in one bedroom. The husband and I are enjoying the view of the pond, and the kids love all of grandma's toys. Last night, I got out all the photo albums from my childhood, and took a trip down memory lane. I saw myself at the age that my children are now, and tried to see the resemblance.<br /><br />Soon, we will have to go back home, and get back to our usual routine, of school, and work, and housework. As for now, we are enjoying our emergency vacation, and time with those we love.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-87660381682046516082008-12-11T11:03:00.000-08:002008-12-11T11:07:41.882-08:00The Sunday PaperEvery Sunday, the paper comes, and inside are the inevitable coupons. I’m not sure if these are a blessing, or a curse. I always feel obligated to look through the coupons, and cut out the ones I might use. However, being able to actually use them is the question. If I cut out a coupon, I put it in the coupon drawer in the kitchen. This is the drawer we are supposed to look in before we go grocery shopping. On a good day, we will, a.) know in advance that we are going grocery shopping, b.) have our menu all planned out for the week, and c.) remember to check the coupons before we leave, and d.) find the exact item on the coupon in the store, and have it be the brand on sale this week, qualifying the coupon as a good deal.<br /><br />On this day of course, we will also remember to bring our reusable grocery bags into the car, and remember to bring them into the store when we get there.<br /><br />Then there are the coupons that make it into the envelope in my purse. These are the ones for something I would be the one to buy. If I’m lucky, and the planets are in alignment next time I go to buy lotion, I will remember to check the envelope and will find a coupon that is valid for what I am actually purchasing, that has not expired. This is becoming increasingly hard these days though, because most of the coupons expire within a few weeks, and by the time I am ready to use them, they are no good. Then there are the coupons that require you to buy 3 of the item, to save a total of 50 cents. Is that really cost effective? I don’t need three bottles of bathroom cleaner at a time, and do I really want to doll out $12 now when I can just go back in a couple months to buy another bottle?<br /><br />I like the diaper coupons, where I can save $5 at BJ’s on a box of Luvs, something I actually use, and don’t want to run out to the store every week to buy. This is a good, fair coupon. But as for saving $1.00 on three boxes of cereal when I only need one, well, that’s questionable.<br /><br />Still, I will continue to check the coupons, and on a good day, I will have enough time to read the meat of the newspaper as well. As for now, we glance at it and most of it is recycled, or used as kindling, or under painting paper. And sometimes, after routing through the coupons, we might read an article or two.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-5556118785218270882008-12-09T09:12:00.000-08:002008-12-11T05:17:12.347-08:00Memoirs of my FatherI heard a Jackson Browne song on the radio today. I couldn’t help thinking about my dad. Long ago, Dad boosted Jackson Browne’s career a little without his knowledge. One night at a home party Dad noticed when Load out/Stay started to play that everyone reacted to the second part of the song. Dad cut the song in half, and played the second part on the radio. The edited version was an instant success and became a hit. Stations all over the country started playing the short version of the song, and soon Jackson Brown was a hot ticket again.<br /><br />My Dad likes to travel to warm places. Year’s back, Dad went to Jamaica. There was a man and his band playing an unfamiliar rhythm and Dad liked what he heard. He bought their album, brought it back to the states, and had it played on his station. He was first to play Reggae on white pop radio, and many other stations followed. You know that man as Bob Marley.<br /><br />When Dad was in high school, his father, an Ear Nose and Throat Dr., influenced my dad to go to Notre Dame for pre-med. Unfortunately, or fortunately, for Dad, he wasn’t any good at Chemistry or Biology. He transferred to NYU and switched to Communications where he DJ’d at the College Radio Station. He was the only student to get fan mail since he gave exam answers over the air.<br /><br />It was while attending NYU that Dad met Mom. There was a party that Mom’s friends were going to, and Mom didn’t really want to attend. But in the end, she agreed to go, and while there a boy named Vince asked her to dance. She said yes, and before he took her out to the dance floor, he went over to the record player to change the music. After that, Dad asked if she wanted to go into the pantry to look at the moon. Mom said, “absolutely not.” Despite that, Dad was in love, and he went home that night and put a sign on his parent’s door that read, “I’m going to marry Petie.” He set out to do that, and called Mom at her college in Tarrytown. There was a phone in the hallway of Mom’s dorm for all the girls to share. Dad would call, and Mom would not be in her room, so he would leave her a message with one of the girls.<br /><br />Mom, being a southern girl, had been taught never to call a boy and wouldn’t call him back. So, in desperation, Dad called Mom’s roommate and told her to call him back next time Mom was in her room. This was the only way he could call back at the right time and talk to Mom.<br /><br />Mom was a year older than Dad, but he wanted to get married. So after Mom graduated Marymount College, (Dad still had another year of college to go and had to ask The Commonwealth of Virginia permission since he was under 21) they got married in Richmond, VA and set off on their Honeymoon. Dad was a little anxious to get to that honeymoon, because Mom was a virtuous girl, and would never let him get very far. So he says they missed a great after party at Mom’s parents house after the wedding reception. Their first meal alone together as husband and wife was at a roadside truck stop on the way to Cape Cod that served drinks in styrofoam cups. Looking back, Dad regrets this, but he has since made up for this meal by taking mom to numerous resorts and nice restaurants.<br /><br />I don’t know if his father ever knew how much of a good choice switching colleges was for Dad. He died when my father was 24 years old. Dad talks about him sometimes, how he wishes he had been a better son. How he wished he had done some things differently as a kid; he regrets installing a Glass Pack muffler in his father’s Buick. Sometimes he gets a tear in his eye as he talks about his father.<br /><br />If Dad’s Father had lived longer, he would have seen that his son had made a good choice. After Dad’s college graduation, Dad went to an agency to see about getting a good job. He sat down at the table, and filled out some forms. One of the questions was, “would you be willing to relocate?” Dad started to write, “C –a – l – i.” The counselor said right away “I have a job for you.” That is how my parents ended up in Hollywood. It was a job selling commercials at radios stations and for magazines. Dad had one suit and it became very shiny because he wore it every day. He made a total of $96.00 a week. He would go to the Brown Derby restaurant using his expense account, order a big steak for lunch then take most of it home to feed his family. My parents had a baby, and an apartment with no furniture; I think they had a bed and a stove. For entertainment on a Friday night, my parents would take walks down town and read the big bulletin boards at the local supermarket. They did have a turntable, and some records in their apartment. That was a must for my Dad. He has loved music his whole life.<br /><br />After a few months in Hollywood, my Mom became pregnant again. My second oldest sister was born a California Girl. They lived in an apartment building with other people just starting out in life. Across the hall there was a woman who was trying to get into the film business. Sometimes my parents would invite her over to their apartment for dinner. She had one favorite interview dress and eventually, she made it also. It is always fun to hear the story about my parents neighbor Raquel Welch.<br /><br />After my parents had lived in Hollywood a short time, my Dad’s Father became sick, and Dad asked to be transferred to the East Coast to be near him. This is how Dad ended up working in NYC. He worked at NBC, WPIX, and some other stations. Two weeks before I was born, my family moved to CT because my Dad took a job at a struggling AM station called WICC. Dad was the General Manager, and he took the station to the top.<br /><br />A few years later, Dad was hired to start a station from scratch. A losing station number 107.9 was purchased. I didn’t know much about it at the time, I was seven. I do remember people coming over for Dinner, and having to be quiet as they met, and talked, and made phone calls. They were planning the new station. My dad brought home a list of available call letters and we all looked through the list. It was my brother who noticed W – E – B – E was available. WE - BE he said. That stuck. They decided to name the station WEBE 108. For the next several years, Dad and his partners built that station. They tried something different with the music program, and everyone liked the sound; it was immediately copied. It is the format now know as Adult Contemporary and played at stations across the country.<br /><br />Dad enjoyed his career in radio. Ironically enough, my mom was not too into music, so he used to bring me to events and promotions. Many times he bought or was given tickets and would bring me to concerts. He took me to see Billy Joel, Joan Baez (one of his all time favorites), Chuck Berry “The Father of Rock and Roll”, Willy Nelson, the Rolling Stones and Elton John. I think there were a few others.<br /><br />When we went to Billy Joel, Dad took me back stage to meet Billy. I had no idea what I was supposed to say to this man who I had been hearing on the record player and the radio my whole life. I just stood in awe and quietly shook his hand.<br /><br />Early one Saturday morning my Dad noticed a line of people out the door of the record store. When he found out they were selling Rolling Stones tickets, he ran over to his barbershop. “I need to borrow $600 in cash right away,” he told Tommy. His barber gave him the money, and that is how my sisters and I ended up going to the Rolling Stones Steele Wheels tour in ‘89. It was a grand event. Dad, in his hipness, got a limo for the occasion. I had never been in a limo before. This made the concert extra cool.<br /><br />As a little girl, I would sit with my dad in the Den as he listened to his records. He had eclectic taste and he would play different things for me to hear. He called it my musical education. He played all artists, all kinds (sometimes the Rock and Roll, sometimes Classical, sometimes Big Band and Jazz). I was also allowed to make requests. Every day he played me <em>Yellow Submarine</em> and <em>Puff the Magic Dragon</em>. Sometimes we would dance. I would reach up and hold his arms as he twirled me around, slowly. I would smell his Old Spice cologne, which I loved. He kept it in a cabinet in the kitchen and put it on every morning as he was leaving for work, before he kissed my mother goodbye.<br /><br />As a child, every night at dinner dad would ask the same question. “What did you learn today?” I had to come up with one thing I had learned in school. “Nothing,” or, “I don’t know” was not an acceptable answer. So I learned to always remember something I had learned at school. Sometimes I will ask this question of my children. “What did you learn today?” I will always think back to my childhood, answering the question for Dad.<br /><br />Dad has a pattern of helping people make it. Not always publicly, not always in obvious ways. He tells people to go for it, encourages their talents. Over the years, he hired many people who became very successful. He taught me to speak up for myself, and to have confidence. He taught me (by word and by example) to go to church every Sunday (or Saturday night with the better music), and don’t be afraid to sing loud and clear. He always told us, “don’t be afraid to order the most expensive thing on the menu on a date,” (providing the boy can afford it).<br /><br />Dad is still with us, and I hope he will be around for another Twenty years. We will see Mom and Dad in the summer, and they will come for Christmas some years. We will always see them at Thanksgiving, with my five siblings, their spouses, and the 15 grandchildren – soon to be 16. We will laugh, and joke, and tell stories, and Dad will sit down and play chess with one of the grandchildren. I don’t know when he will go to the Virgin Island in the sky, but I didn’t want to wait to tell him how I feel. I love you Dad, and Thank you for all you have given us.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-85284032736417723862008-12-01T10:27:00.000-08:002008-12-01T10:35:53.458-08:00Mealtime MelodramaSometimes I want to trade my three year old for a starving child from Africa who will not care if his sandwiches are cut into squares or triangles, or ask for the crusts to be cut off; but will simply be glad to have food.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2169095584356667753.post-87329019663026674572008-11-29T05:04:00.000-08:002008-12-11T05:17:41.301-08:00Pie for BreakfastToday we ate apple pie for breakfast. There just wasn’t time to eat it last night, after our second Thanksgiving. By the time we finished mashed potatoes, turkey, gravy, stuffing, cranberry, yams, and squash, everyone was full. The kids had already gone back for thirds and fourths, and Mom and Dad were stuffed from two heaping plates each.<br /><br />This morning we came down and thought about breakfast. I saw that unopened apple pie on the counter. I said to my husband, “I want to eat pie for breakfast.” “Go ahead,” he said. “No,” I said. “It would be a bad example for the kids.” So I asked the kids, “do you want eggs?” “No” they say. “Toast?” “No.” “What do you want?” No answer.<br /><br />“We’re having pie,” I said. “Yay,” they proclaimed. Smiling kids came running to the table. We sat down and cut 4 slices from the pie and ate them. Then two more slices each. “There’s one slice left for dad,” my oldest announced. Dad was not even ready to think about eating again after last night. Or maybe he is not a fan of pie for breakfast. “Ok, I’ll have it later,” he says.<br /><br />I think we will start a new tradition; we should do this every year. Thanksgiving dinner is so good, that we don’t always have room for the pie. That’s a very good reason to have pie for breakfast.Amandahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14544537901371319447noreply@blogger.com1